what makes you so certain that they are masturbating to other men.

Reader: I can see how you get that. however, what makes you so certain that they are masturbating to other men. personally, that was never my experience. as a teen, i always had females and mind when when i masturbated.

Response: Exactly. That's where 'most' males start because of the natural sexual attraction for females.

Understand that masturbating is only a way to release sexual energy, until you are able to have sexual intercourse, which is a sexual 'exchange' between male and female sex organs/chakras. This is why masturbation drains your energy levels, but you are still horny, but just tired.

Even masturbating alone creates an obsession with male attributes. This is why males have 'fetishes' for the chest, abs, penis, forearms, back of hands, biceps, front of thigh, knees, calves and top of feet. It's because this is what he is looking at often times when he has the powerful sexual pleasure sensation of orgasm, over and over again.

This is how he bonds his sexual pleasure of orgasm with male attributes, even when alone. Especially when he masturbates in a mirror, which many males do who work out in gyms to create the admired male body image.

So what this does over a very short time is, overpower his natural sexual attraction for females, with this manual sexual bond to male attributes that he maintains through masturbation. This is also why males struggle so much with trying to create a sexual 'relationship' with another male, when the 'attraction' or sexual 'bond' is with admired attributes, and never really about the other person. Because within a very short time, another male with a more 'admired' attribute (more masculinity/a more body image/more self confidence) will draw his attention and become his new masturbation aid. This is also why even when he has a sexual relationship with another male, porn is a required element.

Just stop masturbating and get away from all porn for at least 10 days, and you will notice less of a desire to 'workout' to obtain the body parts of another male, and less of sexual bond with other male attributes.

Go longer than 10 days and your natural Organic Sexuality begins to come back. But more than likely, you will finally be able to discover what your Organic Sexuality really is.

This is not about what is right, what is wrong, or any religious nonsense. But an opportunity for the male to understand his sexual self.....Organically.