Sunday, July 26, 2009

what makes you so certain that they are masturbating to other men.

Reader: I can see how you get that. however, what makes you so certain that they are masturbating to other men. personally, that was never my experience. as a teen, i always had females and mind when when i masturbated.

Response: Exactly. That's where 'most' males start because of the natural sexual attraction for females.

Understand that masturbating is only a way to release sexual energy, until you are able to have sexual intercourse, which is a sexual 'exchange' between male and female sex organs/chakras. This is why masturbation drains your energy levels, but you are still horny, but just tired.

Even masturbating alone creates an obsession with male attributes. This is why males have 'fetishes' for the chest, abs, penis, forearms, back of hands, biceps, front of thigh, knees, calves and top of feet. It's because this is what he is looking at often times when he has the powerful sexual pleasure sensation of orgasm, over and over again.

This is how he bonds his sexual pleasure of orgasm with male attributes, even when alone. Especially when he masturbates in a mirror, which many males do who work out in gyms to create the admired male body image.

So what this does over a very short time is, overpower his natural sexual attraction for females, with this manual sexual bond to male attributes that he maintains through masturbation. This is also why males struggle so much with trying to create a sexual 'relationship' with another male, when the 'attraction' or sexual 'bond' is with admired attributes, and never really about the other person. Because within a very short time, another male with a more 'admired' attribute (more masculinity/a more body image/more self confidence) will draw his attention and become his new masturbation aid. This is also why even when he has a sexual relationship with another male, porn is a required element.

Just stop masturbating and get away from all porn for at least 10 days, and you will notice less of a desire to 'workout' to obtain the body parts of another male, and less of sexual bond with other male attributes.

Go longer than 10 days and your natural Organic Sexuality begins to come back. But more than likely, you will finally be able to discover what your Organic Sexuality really is.

This is not about what is right, what is wrong, or any religious nonsense. But an opportunity for the male to understand his sexual self.....Organically.

you dont think the majority of kats claiming to be homosexual really are?

Reader: So in general, you dont think the majority of kats claiming to be homosexual really are?

Response: well, homosexual is only a 'type' of sexual activity that any human can 'choose' to have at any time in their lives. No human can BE homosexual or heterosexual.

However, any human can 'choose' to ONLY have homosexual type sexual activity. It's always a choice. But the biggest lie is that it's 'who' they are.

That's only a cop-out because these males have no idea 'why' they are stuck masturbating to more masculine, more muscular males than themselves. But at the same time, masturbating 1 to 5 times daily, to a never ending stream of naked male porn to keep them going.

how did you come to this revelation?

Reader: interesting. and how did you come to this revelation?

Response: The medical industry has known this for over 30 years. I think there was just that there was too much money available for psychiatry and the homosexual/gay activists who were committed to a lifestyle being addicted to masturbation, were opposed to a solution.

Very much like drug addicts will do anything to keep their drugs flowing. However after they are 'forced' to detox, they realize what was happening to them. It's the same with masturbation with males. He knows nothing else but masturbation if he starts at puberty, and if he starts masturbating to the admired male attributes he wishes he had in himself...that will never end. Until he stops masturbating and rebuilds his self esteem.

you definitely got me thinking..

Reader: ur profile is very interesting. you definitely got me thinking..

Response: most males don't realize the cycle of masturbation body image obsession is maintained my the consistent masturbation. It starts at puberty, and this is why some males 'think' they were always sexually attracted to other males, and why they are still attracted to females, but have become 'more' attracted to males over time. This is ALL due to consistent masturbation.

What is Organic Sexuality?

Do you really know what your Organic Sexual Attraction really is?

Most males have no understanding of the difference between 'sexual attraction' and basic 'attraction'.

Males are 'attracted' to anything they desire for themselves. The huge flat panel TV, the nice stereo system, the fast car, feminine female body, flashy clothing, big homes, Masculinity and a more muscular and stronger male body. None of these items/attributes naturally have any sexual attraction for him.

It's only when he begins to 'masturbate' to the admired images does he create a manual sexual 'bond' with those 'images. The human and animal male sexual attraction for females is chemical in nature. The physical body is only an 'attraction' just like anything else, but it's the chemical reaction that creates the sexual attraction for females.

The later sexual bond he creates with the female body only occurs when the physical body attraction is bonded with the very powerful pleasure of masturbation and orgasm.

However, males who feel attracted to other male 'attributes' are a bit different. There is no chemical reaction or connection with the other male. But it's ONLY a manual bond created through masturbating to the 'admired' male attributes.

For many males, this starts at puberty. This is why most males will always be sexually attracted to females, but will feel 'more' sexually attracted to males with 'admired' attributes of masculinity and muscular body image.

WHY IS THIS HAPPENING?
Because since puberty, he has not been able to establish his natural and organic sexuality. Through masturbation, he has consistently distorted his sexual attraction with masturbation to 'admired' male attributes he wished he had in himself.

The longer he masturbates to those admired attributes, the stronger the 'bond' he will create for those male attributes, and the more distorted his natural chemical sexual attraction will be for females.

The required use of all types of porn, naked male admired images, and the gym where over 80& of the males there are suffering from the same sexual dysfunction.
Obsessed with trying to obtain the more masculine body image of another male in the gym, a magazine or on TV.

They go home and masturbation to their pumped up body image before it deflates, thinking they are attracted to other males. If they are unsuccessful in building their body into the admired image, they will naked male images and porn to masturbate to.

The reality is that they have only created a sexual bond with the male 'attributes' they admire of other males, that they wished they had in themselves. Many males have been masturbating exclusively to admired male attributes all their lives and have never given himself an opportunity to experience his Organic Sexuality.

Most of these males end up choosing to 'be' gay and create a life and lifestyle based on a never ending cycle of porn and masturbation.

MAINTENANCE REQUIRED:
It takes daily maintenance to maintain a sexual bond with admired attributes. If that was not the case, there would be no need to masturbate on a daily basis and use props, or magazines and videos to become aroused.

IS THIS YOU?
Test yourself: - Try to stop masturbating for only 10 days. - Stay away from all porn on TV, magazines and on the Internet. - Stay away from the gym where you are surrounded by other males stuck masturbating to create a sexuality.

What you will find is that your manual sexual 'bond' you currently have with admired male attributes will begin to fade. It will be confusing at first, because you are so conditioned to masturbating a a certain time each day. So find another habit. Go walking, go running, do push-ups, in a very short time your new habit will begin to replace your old masturbation habit.

Soon you will be able to go 10 to 30 days without a problem.

Remember, the addiction to masturbation is just alike any other addiction. Very similar to drug addiction, where there is withdrawal. Many males think they are just horny. That's not the case, as you will see by the 10th day.

So before you 'commit' to BEING a sexuality based on masturbation and porn, how about first learning what your Organic Sexuality is.

You are guaranteed to surprise yourself.